Mentoring someone sees you providing professional input to another individual. Ideally, they\u2019ve asked for your input to meet a particular goal or because you have a certain strength they want to improve. But you too can benefit from the mentor-mentee relationship. Being a mentor<\/a> can:<\/p>\n If you\u2019ve agreed to take on a mentee, you\u2019ll want to do your best to help that individual. But inspiring and guiding someone else in their career takes intentional effort on your part. That\u2019s why we\u2019ve gathered these eight suggestions for how to mentor effectively.<\/p>\n The first thing you will need to do is establish a framework for the mentoring engagement. You need to \u201clet the mentee lead,\u201d according to Sheryl Lyons in a Forbes round-up<\/a> of mentoring advice. \u201cMentoring is about guiding and empowering, not directing.\u201d<\/p>\n Avoid being prescriptive. If you act like the expert coming in to tell them what to do, the mentee won\u2019t develop the necessary skills or confidence they need. Prefer asking powerful questions and asking mentees to imagine what they might do if to telling them what you would do in a situation.<\/p>\n If you enter the mentor-mentee relationship seating yourself in the \u201cexpert\u201d seat preparing to show how you have already been there and done that, you might find the mentee doesn\u2019t respond well. Few people like to work with a know-it-all. Instead, clarify from the very beginning what you both expect of your role as a mentor.<\/p>\n Expect to ask questions and share ideas, even tell stories, but you don\u2019t want to make the mentor dependent on you and your input. As ATD puts it<\/a>, \u201cyou want them to be able to eventually outgrow their need for you.\u201d Help position them for success by guiding them to look at themselves and situations at work in fresh ways.<\/p>\n Mentors can help accelerate the mentees growth and development. This may require you to push the mentee in certain directions or expect high performance from them. At the same time, though, you don\u2019t want to create such high expectations that the mentee loses motivation or confidence.<\/p>\n When thinking about how to effectively mentor, also think about the importance of challenging your mentee\u2019s assumptions. Asking probing questions that encourage them to brainstorm new ideas or dig deeper into an issue can help them discover personal truths and identify thinking that is holding them back.<\/p>\n As an effective mentor you\u2019ll need to establish trust and show empathy<\/a> and compassion. Through your interactions together, you will really get to know the individual you are mentoring. That\u2019s a good thing. Yet you don\u2019t want to become such good friends that you are veering off into personal matters or gossiping about what\u2019s happening in the work environment.<\/p>\n It\u2019s a good idea to have an informal agenda for each of your sessions together. Start out by asking what the mentee wants to accomplish? That can be your true north for the discussion that day.<\/p>\n An effective work mentor will stop talking and listen to the mentee. Again, while you may have been brought in to help because of what you know or do, the goal is to empower the mentee. Don\u2019t hog the stage.<\/p>\n Being silent more isn\u2019t enough, though. You need to practice active listening. Career advisor Jill Huggett tells Forbes, \u201cDon’t feel like you need to have all the answers. To be honest, no one knows better about what is best for them than themselves. Many times, it just takes talking through things. If you can provide that sounding board, you are a valuable resource.\u201d<\/p>\n Your experience is not the only way someone might get to where they want to go. A guide for mentoring women in technology notes, \u201cIf you are a man mentoring a woman, or if a protegee is from a different ethnic group, be aware and respect her experiences, ideas, and goals.\u201d<\/p>\n You are a guide only. \u201cRecognize that the prot\u00e9g\u00e9e’s goals are her own and that she may have career goals that differ from the path you chose.\u201d<\/p>\n Work to offer constructive criticism<\/a>. A manager cited in Business News Daily<\/a> noted, \u201cWhoever you are mentoring isn\u2019t going to get everything right on the first attempt, so you need to be able to [provide] feedback<\/a> constructively but effectively to ensure that they improve and progress.\u201d<\/p>\n It can be helpful to set up a timeframe for the engagement. Perhaps you\u2019ll agree upfront to work together for six months or a year. Then, plan on checking in with one another halfway through (or, sooner for a longer engagement). This could be an opportunity to refocus the mentoring relationship, change how you interact or how often, or end the formal mentoring if it isn\u2019t working out.<\/p>\n People often launch mentorship relationships because they are struggling with something or looking to address a weakness. So, taking the time to applaud achievements and recognize successes can help keep the mentee motivated.<\/p>\n HubSpot<\/a> suggests you might even ask the individual to identify their love language<\/a>. This will help you know whether your mentee will respond better to a small gift or perhaps words of affirmation.<\/p>\n There is a lot to think about when determining how to be an effective work mentor. But the benefits are worth i<\/a>t. Another article in this series also warned of potential pitfalls to avoid<\/a>. Look next for our final installment in this series, comparing coaching and mentoring relationships.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Being asked to be someone\u2019s mentor at work is a nice vote of confidence. You have to be doing something right. However, while feeling flattered, you may also be wondering if you have what it takes to be a good mentor. Before you get started, review our strategies for how to mentor effectively. Mentoring someone sees you providing professional input to another individual. Ideally, they\u2019ve asked for your input to meet a particular goal or because you have a certain strength they want to improve. But you too can benefit from the mentor-mentee relationship. Being a mentor can: Provide a feeling of satisfaction Offer new perspectives Develop your leadership skills Enhance your communication skills Teach you new things If you\u2019ve agreed to take on a mentee, you\u2019ll want to do your best to help that individual. But inspiring and guiding someone else in their career takes intentional effort on your part. That\u2019s why we\u2019ve gathered these eight suggestions for how to mentor effectively. 1. Agree on goals The first thing you will need to do is establish a framework for the mentoring engagement. You need to \u201clet the mentee lead,\u201d according to Sheryl Lyons in a Forbes round-up of mentoring advice. \u201cMentoring is about guiding and empowering, not directing.\u201d Avoid being prescriptive. If you act like the expert coming in to tell them what to do, the mentee won\u2019t develop the necessary skills or confidence they need. Prefer asking powerful questions and asking mentees to imagine what they might do […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":5042,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,156],"tags":[164,241,829,828,839,208],"yoast_head":"\n\n
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<\/a><\/p>\n1. Agree on goals<\/h2>\n
2. Identify your role<\/h2>\n
3. Challenge the individual<\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/p>\n4. Build a relationship, but don\u2019t get off track<\/h2>\n
5. Practice active listening<\/h2>\n
6. Keep an open mind<\/h2>\n
7. Evaluate progress along the way<\/h2>\n
8. Celebrate achievements<\/h2>\n